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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:28

How does one succeed in life?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why do subpar women think that they are nines and tens?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Will my parents go to hell if I don't wear hijab, they tried to convince me and they provided it to me but I don't want to wear it?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What are the reasons behind Europeans preferring to visit third world countries over taking holidays in their own continent?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Ask yourself:

What, when building a house, are the necessary wires (beside 120v) to future proof my house, Cat6, Coax, low voltage, and alarm wires?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What do you think of Andrew Tate?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

That's it for today.

Has anyone ever read The Holy Bible completely through? If so, what was your overall impression of it?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What I need from you?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do unattractive men assume that a pretty woman like me want them?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What can you do if someone makes a false accusation against you?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Can you share some of your favorite jokes that are not well-known but always make people laugh?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

As a friend of Megan's who also watches Suits, would you advise her not to return to the show in order to protect her character's reputation?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

What do you think of the controls that will be set up over information flows at Taiwan's Ministry of Foreign Affairs' missions?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Making more friends is a goal.

How can we understand the mind of a Trump supporter?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).